Sonlight Read-Alouds

This may seem like a strange subhead. But we have found through the years, however, that many parents limit their children's opportunities by (incorrectly) pre-judging what their children can or cannot handle.

When you read to your children, you will find they can often comprehend far more than you would have ever thought possible.

Here's are some tips for reading aloud.

• Choose a comfortable spot to enjoy the experience of discovery together.
• Begin reading. Read with expressiveness and passion, adopting different tones and/or voices when different characters speak. Try to put yourselves into the characters of the people you are reading about. Example: do a British accent for British characters or a Spanish accent for Spaniards, etc.
• When you come across a word or phrase with which your children are unfamiliar, either explain it "on the fly" — right then, while you're reading, as if it were written in the text — or (if you don't know the meaning of a word) look it up together. If there is a reference to a place whose location you don't know, get out your map or globe and find it as well. This looking it up is an integral part of the learning experience.
• If a sentence is too difficult for your children to understand, either re-interpret it on the fly (as you are reading), or read the sentence as-is, then go back and explain it. (Children often understand more than we give them credit for! One Sonlighter even shared: "I have found, through embarrassing experience that I usually need to ask my children if they understand before simply launching into an explanation.)
• One of our reasons for reading aloud is so to interact with each other. Try to make the most of this opportunity! Discuss what you read. Use your books as launching pads for delving into tangentially related topics and for further research.
• Ask questions, talk with your children about what you are reading, and share with them what you think and feel, and believe as a result of what you are reading together. Seek to be examples to your children of how educated people interact with quality literature. As one Sonlighter shares: "Now that our older kids are more and more "on their own," I am thrilled by the way in which they will approach me with questions that disturb them: "Dad, I've been reading in Leviticus 19, and I just don't understand. Why does __________... ?" What a privilege that a habit of open communication and pursuit of truth is continuing long after any necessity has been laid upon them to come to me for help!)
• Break up long chapters as necessary to stop at suspenseful points when interest is still high. (Sonlight attempts to break the Read-Aloud assignments in this fashion for you.)
• Most of all, we enjoy the experience of reading.

Note that, in choosing books for inclusion in Sonlight Curriculum, we attempted to avoid books that include scary, boring or offensive passages. However, we know that different families — even as different children within families — have different tolerance levels. What is intellectually challenging to one may be highly offensive to another. What is terrifying to one may be merely strange or mildly humorous to another. And boredom? Sometimes it is not that one should skip a passage, but rather, that the passage requires some words of explanation so the child can understand what it is s/he is listening to. As always, good judgment is in order. Learn more about how to deal with books that include "bad" words, unsavory characters, and controversial topics.

Visit the Sonlight blog for even more tips, advice, and encouragement for reading aloud.